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Good to Great by Jim Collins

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Book Reports

Age Power: How The 21st Century Will Be Ruled By The New Old by Ken Dychtwald, Ph.D.

A-Ha Performance by Douglas Walker with Stephen Sorkin

Are You Ready To Succeed?
Unconventional Strategies for Achieving Personal Mastery In Business and in Life
by Srikumar S. Rao

A Spark from Heaven? The Place of Potential in Organizational and Individual Development by Adrian W. Savage

Authentic Leadership - Rediscovering the Secrets to Creating Lasting Value by Bill George

Building Trust In Business, Politics, Relationships, and Life by Robert C. Solomon & Fernando Flores

Business is a Contact Sport by Tom Richardson, Augusto Vidauretta

Chained to the Desk: A Guidebook for Workaholics, their Partners, and Children, and all the Clinicians who Treat Them by Bryan E. Robinson, Ph.D

Change Your Questions Change Your Life By Marilee G. Adams Ph.D.

Choices: Manage Your Choices and You Will Manage Your Life by Shad Helmstetter

Clients for Life: Evolving from an Expert for Hire to an Extraordinary Advisor relationships by Jagdish Sheth and Andrew Sobel

Closing the Leadership Gap by MarieC. Wilson

Coaching: Evoking Excellence in Others by James Flaherty

Confidence: How Winning Streaks and Losing Streaks Begin and End by Rosabeth Moss Kanter

Confronting Reality:Doing What Matters to Get Things Rightby Larry Bossidy & Ram Charan

Crossing the Unknown Sea by David Whyte

Crucial Confrontations: Tools for resolving broken promises, violated expectations and bad behavior By Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzle

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, & Al Swtizler

Customer Centric Selling by Michael T. Bosworth and John R. Holland

Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton and Sheila Heen of the Harvard Negotiation Project

Elizabeth 1 CEO: Strategic lessons from the leader who built an empire by Alan Axelrod

Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation and Guilt To Manipulate You by Susan Forward PhD

Employed For Life by Frumi Rachel Barr

Execution: The Discipline of Getting Things Done by Larry Bossidy and Ram Charan

Failing Forward: Turning Mistakes into Stepping Stones for Success by John C. Maxwell, Thomas Nelson

Fierce Conversations: Achieving Success at Work & in Life, One Conversation at a Time by Susan Scott

Geeks and Geezers by Warren G. Bennis and Robert J. Thomas

Generating Buy-In: Mastering the Language of Leadership by Mark S. Walton

Getting To Yes by Roger Fisher & William Ury

Get Off The Fence: 10 + 1 Steps to Help You Make That Big Decision by Rhoda Makoff Ph.D. ND & Jeffrey Makoff Esq.

Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by Roger Fisher & William Ury

Good To Great by Jim Collins

How to Become a Rainmaker: The Rules for Getting and Keeping Customers and Clients by Jeffrey J. Fox

Influence: Science and Practice by Robert Cialdini

It’s Your Ship: Management Techniques from the Best Damn Ship in the Navy by Captain D. Michael Abrashoff

Leadership from the Inside Out by Kevin Cashman

Leading With Questions by Michael Marquardt

Learning as a Way of Being by Peter Vaill

Life Skills: Taking Charge of Your personal and Professional Growth by Richard J. Leider

Love is the Killer App: How to Win Business and Influence Friends by Tim Sanders

Know How - The 8 Skills That Separate People Who Perform from Those Who Don’t by Ram Charan

Making Your Dreams Come True by Marcia Wieder

Managing Conflict by Richard Walton - Harvard School of Business

Missed Fortune by Douglas Andrew

Monday Morning Leadership by David Cottrell

Monday Morning Leadership for Women by Valerie Sokolosky

Negotiating for Your Life: New Success Strategies for Women by Nicole Schapiro

Play Like a Man Win Like a Woman: What Men Know about Success that Women Need to Learn by Gale Evans

Quiet Leadershipby David Rock

Secrets of Six Figure Women: Surprising Strategies to up Your Earnings and Change Your Life by Barbara Stanny

Small Books with Big Messages by Frumi Rachel Barr

Smart Choices: A Practical Guide to Making Better Life Decisions by John S. Hammond, Ralph L. Keeney, Howard Raiffa

Take Yourself to the Top by Laura Berman Fortgang

The 3 Financial Styles of Very Successful Leaders by E. Ted Prince

The Art of Possibility by Rosamund Stone Zander & Benjamin Zander

The Attractor Factor by Joe Vitale

The Bear Essentials of Business By Maxine Carter

The E Myth by Michael E. Gerber

The EQ Edge by Steven J. Stein, Ph.D. and Howard E. Book, M.D.

The Emotional Intelligence Quick Book: Everything you need to know to put your EQ to work By Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves

The Extraordinary Leader By John H. Zenger & Joseph Folkman

The Five Languages of Love by Gary Chapman

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

The Game of Work by Charles A. Coonradt

The Last Word on Power by Tracy Goss

The Likeability Factor by Tim Sanders

The Luck Factor by Dr. Richard Wiseman

The New Agreements of the Workplace by David Dibble

The New Law of Demand and Supply by Rick Kash

The One Thing You Need to Know by Marcus Buckingham

The Power of Feedback: 35 Principles for Turning Feedback from Others Into Personal and Professional Change by Joseph R. Folkman

The Power of Focus Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen

The Power of Full Engagement Jim Loehr & Tony Schwartz

The Referral of a Lifetime: The Networking System That Produces Bottom-Line Results Every Day! by Tim Templeton For a FREE copy of the book and more information about the Keep-In Touch software, created to help you keep in touch with your contacts. Visit http://www.Keep-InTouch.com or call (877) 321-6500 x 206.

The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

The Story of Your Life by Mandy Aftel

The Velveteen Principles: A Guide to Becoming Realby Toni Raiten-D’Antonio

The Virtues of Aging by Jimmy Carter

This Year I Will by M.J. Ryan

Trust Yourself: How to Stop feeling Overwhelmed and Live More Happily with Less EffortM. J. Ryan

Unstoppable by Cynthia Kersey

Verbal Judo: The Gentle Art of Persuasion by George G. Thompson, PhD & Jerry B. Jenkins

What Got You Here Won’t Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith

Why Smart Executives Fail And What You Can Learn from Their Mistakes by Sydney Finkelstein

Winning by Jack Welch

You’re in Charge: Now What? by Thomas Neff and James Citrin

Your Money or Your Life: Transforming your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence by Joe Dominguez and Vicki RobinCrucialConfrontations.pdf

Frumi"isms”

Conflict Is Not A Dirty Word by Frumi

EverywhereYouGoThereYouAre by Frumi

Moving the Peanut Forward by Frumi

Sitting in the Question by Frumi

Slowing Down To Speed Up by Frumi

Treat Your Children Like Your Best Client by Frumi

Book Recommendations

Action Coaching by David L. Dotlich & Peter C.Cairo

Adult Years by Frederic M. Hudson

Beyond the Wall of Resistance by Rick Maurer

Co-Active Coaching by Laura Whitworth henry Kimsey-House, Henry & Phil Sandahl

Designing Conflict Management Systems by Cathy A. Costantino & Christina Sickles Merchant

Developing High Performance People by Mink, Oscar G. Mink, Keith Q. Owen, & Barbara P. Mink

Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman

Executive Coaching: An Appreciative Approach by William Berquist, Kenneth Merritt, and Steven Phillips

Executive EQ by Robert K. Cooper

Finding Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Future Search by Marvin Weisbord & Sandra Janoff

Getting to Resolution by Stewart Levine

Half Time by Bob Buford

Handbook of Coaching by Frederic M. Hudson

High Performance by Bob Davies

Hot Buttons: How to Resolve Conflicts and Cool Everyone Down by Sybil Evans and Sherry Suib Cohen

Leading at the Speed of Growth by Katherine Catlin and Jana Matthews

Leading the Revolution by Gary Hamel

Life Launch by Frederic M. Hudson

Living Your Best Life by Laura Berman Fortgang

Managing Transitions by William Bridges

Masterful Coaching by Robert Hargrove

Now, Discover Your Strengths by Marcus Buckingham and Donald Clifton

Primal Leadership by Daniel Goleman, Richard Boyatzis and Annie McKee

Secrets of a CEO Coach by D.A. Benton

Soar with Your Strengths by Donald O. Clifton, and Paula Nelson

Strategic Renaissance: New Thinking and Innovative Tools to create Great Corporate Strategies Using Insights from History and Science by Evan Matthew Dudik

Synchronicity by Joseph Jaworski

The Age of Unreason by Charles Handy

The Answer to How is Yes by Peter Block

The Art of the Long View by Peter Schwartz

The Business Coach by James S. Doyle

The Heart of Coaching by Thomas G. Crane

The Innovators Dilemma: When New Technologies Cause Great Firms to Fail by Clayton M. Christensen

The Leadership Challenge by James M. Kouzes, Barry Z. Posner

The Longevity Theory by David Mahoney and Richard Restak M.D.

The Mentor’s Guide: Facilitating Effective Learning Relationships by Lois J. Zachary

The Power of Will by Anthony Paranello

The Purpose of Your Life by Carol Adrienne

The Set-Up-to-Fail Syndrome: How Good Managers Cause Great People to Fail by Jean-Francois Manzoni & Jean-Louis Barsoux

The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey

The Skilled Helper by Gerrard Egan

The Sky is Not the Limit by Bob Davies

The Team Coach by Donna Deeprose

The Tipping Point: How Little Things can make a Big Difference by Malcolm Gladwell

The Power of Purpose by Richard J. Leider

Visioning: Ten Steps to designing the Life of Your Dreams by Lucia Capacchione, PhD

What Color is Your Parachute by Richard Nelson Bolles

Whistle While You Work by Richard J. Leider and David A. Shapiro

When Anger Hurts: How to Change Painful feelings Into Positive Action by Matthew McKay et al

Who Moved My Cheese by Spenser Johnson M.D.

You Just Don’t Understand. Women and Men in Conversation by Deborah Tannen, Ph.D.

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